Jmall,
A couple of things... We try not to have discussions about religion here at PC. Everyone has their different belief systems and higher beings and such, and we try not to cause tension or conflict by having serious discussion about religion (or politics).

Another thing, not all guys base their relationships on sex. My fiance and I waited four years before doing anything, and I was not his first. In fact, he was the one who wanted to wait even more than I did. It takes all kinds to make a world, and i believe that everyone needs to stand up for what they believe and wants. She will find someone who has similar wants, needs, dreams, and desires to her own, as long as she doesn't settle for "good enough for me."

And waiting is not a game. It is a personal decision not to be taken lightly.


acbcdefg66666,
I agree with Direction that you shouldn't just rag on him, but I believe you are making the right decision for you. I think everyone learns from their past in different ways. I believe that if you take time to really figure out what you want and need in a partner, as well as your self esteem all the time being gentle and loving towards yourself, I believe you will find someone. Take care of yourself first, love yourself and know that you are worthy of being loved, and things will fall into place.

Best wishes and take care