((((((((((((Tina)))))))))))))

I think it's great that you talked about the attachment with T

I feel very securely attached to my T, but I've been seeing him for a LONG time...almost 4 years. It took a long time to work through all of the walls and fears and self-protection and history and everything that kept me from feeling safe enough to feel that secure attachment.

Like Sunny said, although we have talked about our relationship, the attachment has really grown through working through difficult things together, through T giving me different responses than the ones I had as a child, through me showing up week after week willing to do the work.

I think you are right where you need to be. It sounds like you are doing good work