Your welcome. I was just remembering what you said, that you loved him and he was the best thing that ever happened to you. And I do hope that you will include that in your conversation with him so that he does know you love him and you would like to set a goal of understanding (together) what a healthy love is. And that is going to take time.

Finding a good partner is so hard Gee and I would hate to see you deny yourself of that because of something that happened to you in your past, that was unfair to you. I would like to see you get beyond that and enjoy your life and allow yourself to love someone and visa versa. And a healthy love? well that means understanding a partner and what boundaries that partner may have or need and working on it.

Open Eyes