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Old Jun 23, 2011, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted by geez View Post
Thank you so much ((Indie)). Talking definitely does help. My T has told me that when we avoid something for so long it makes it feel so big and the longer we take to address it, it can take on a life of its own and make it that much harder to address. I guess it's taken me three years to be brave enough to want to say it out loud. I feel a little bit of relief after reading your post.

And to Sannah and Granite much love back! I don't know what I would do without you all.
awe thanks I agree with your T - we so often make things bigger in our minds, and there's always the fear of T's reaction and both of these combined can make talking about it feel impossible. But therapists have heard all sorts of stuff, and even if an issue should arise, they know to take it to their own counseling or to a supervisor. But don't count on T having this kind of reaction - sounds like yours knows their stuff.
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Thanks for this!
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