OK I hope this doesn't sound like a moronic question to everyone......

Have you ever pretended for a period of time that you were divorced? I'm grappling with thoughts about my marriage and I'm feeling overwhelmed to say the least. I'm thinking about perhaps I should get a divorce because I can't stand my husband (there have been periods in our relationship where its been ok). He's great in so many ways and yet extremely annoying in so many others. I guess if our marriage or relationship were stronger then contemplating a divorce wouldn't even be in the picture. Anyone out there think about divorce and come through the other side still married and then happy???

I feel horrible for having these thoughts of divorce as my husband is a 'nice guy' but I need to explore this topic once and for all to put my mind at rest.

PS - I'm hoping by my work and the will of god that this marriage not only survives but thrives.