You know Erti, it does seem I am blaming his girlfriend rather than AJ.. I really like his girlfriend. I think she is a great person. I guess I was disappointed she didn't push AJ out of bed for work...But it isn't her fault at all... It isn't her res ponsibility...And Yes, I think I was blaming her and I was wrong....

I think I am over anxious because this is AJ's first real job.. He is a "late" bloomer for sure and I don't want him to screw it up...But then, he has to make his own decisions.. He has been doing great so far.. Just slipped up once...and I reacted.. Maybe made a mountain out of a mole hill..... He knows what he has to do.... He doesn't need me to remind him.....Smacks me head with a soft pillow... He is an "adult"...And he has been acting like an adult... I just need to chill .. Mothers are like that, ya know...