I just hate those types that tell you to just get on with your life...forget about it...whats happened happened...get over it.

if it was only that simple we'd all be walking around in perfect mental health.
bad things happen to good people...every day in the world. your a young woman...married...looks to me like you are TRYING to get on with your life. .
Not wanting to be touched and having little or no interest in sex is perfectly normal after what you have been thru. You need patience and gentleness and understanding. your husband should know this...i mean i know that its a marriage...and sex is part of a marriage, but its not all of a marriage.
Maybe in time you will feel comfortable or at least more comfortable. I understand what you are feeling. just remember you love him...you married him...hes your husband, and not the one that hurt you. try to trust him...even though its hard.