It is difficult to diagnose psychiatric disorders especially when you have lived through a "traumatic" event like a birth. It leaves you at risk for depression and psychoses. I am not a psychiatrist but perhaps it is good to make an inventory of the most relevant complaints and than view the DSM IV ttogether with your T, to see which diagnose is most suitable.
I hope you will come further in this. It isnt easy to have troubles without a diagnose.
Lots of love
Wiertjuh