Because her language is extremely abusive for the position she is in. My jaw is on the floor regarding how she responds to you. While I support being confrontational and reducing client's "manipulative" behaviors and trying to encourage them to use skills and pull themselves out of being a victim - this is beyond inappropriate. If she is "sick of listening to your victim s---", then she needs to refer you elsewhere. She obviously cannot handle what is going on and should have the professionalism to realize she is in over her head instead of using profane and inappropriate language and confrontation with you. Find. A. New. PDOC. ASAP! And, I'd report to the board about her behavior.