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Old Jun 24, 2011, 11:49 PM
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Originally Posted by PTSDlovemycats View Post
I really don't see her as being abusive to me.I think she just says stuff like that to get me to snap out of it, I know she cares about me, She has helped me through so much. I don't want another PDoc...
I have to admit I also was really bothered by what she texted to you. However, if you are truly okay with it, if you really find it therapeutic to be spoken to in this way, then I won't say anything negative about it.

I will say, though, that if my T ever said anything like that to me, in either writing or verbally, I'd be instantly done with the relationship. Having such things said to me by someone I trust would be very, very upsetting. I don't allow friends or family to speak to me in such a manner, why would I allow it from someone I'm paying to help me.
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