Well as a mom I can see myself doing this. Although I did not realize he was 31. I think he is to old for you to be having to baby him. I only say that cause my mother still does this babying thing for my brother who is now 53 and married with a child of age 21. My mother in law God rest her soul was the same with her oldest child. Now let me tell you that from what I have learned in seeing what they did. It does not help them at all. My brother relys on my mom now for everything and even for money, rides, everything you can think of cuase she did not cut the appron strings yet. As for my brother in law he now has a difficult time in dealing with simple everyday life issues. All this cause both moms could not kick out the chicks from the nest. Mind you I am a mom of a 16 yr olg daughter and since she started high school it was all up to her to wake up, get ready for school, find breakfast for herself and make sure she got to school on time. Yes there were times she did not wake up but she had to face the consequences at school and here at home. This has made her an independent young lady. Its hard to do but I don't want her to be like her uncles who can't do it on their own. Aj is old enough to learn and face the real world of becoming a mature adult that he is. No harm of being a mom and helping once in awhilw we all need help at times. Just think what will he do if your not around.