If she said that EXACTLY like that I would think see a new T but if she said it would most likely help you get a man to not be overweight and to be a bit more feminine then I would say...she has a point. Odds are most men DO like women who are near the normal weight and look nice...Nice can be with or without make up just the best that person can be. Can you ask her to expound on all of this...And I think trying to lose weight and all is a goal she may want you to set and plan ..but I dunno
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