I've tried talking to her on the phone (We had made plans in advance to meet for lunch and she emailed me bailing on them. She didn't even bother to call me, so if I didn't check my email, I wouldn't have known.) about how I was hurt that I felt blown off by her, since I hadn't heard from her in a few weeks and that she didn't even call me to tell me she needed to cancel plans. She basically made up excuses and told me that she has been always there for me and that she basically deserves slack for 'forgetting' about me. She never said 'oh I'm sorry I forgot about your so-so, things have been hectic for me.'-if she said something like that I would have understood. But she didn't.