It's just my opinion but eating disorders often mean there is something going on that is totally unrelated to food. I also think that therapy can be done without being t-ed off as well.

It's also my opinion that there are indeed people out there that will like you for you at your current weight. It may be that you have a wall up and that is why you are having concerns. It might be more beneficial to work on being content by self first before worrying about "getting a man".

If this is what the t said, sounds like she has some issues that need to be dealt with as well. Perhaps asking her to clarify exactly what she means by her statements would be helpful.

Good luck to you on your journey.