I would say new therapist! that is pretty stereotypical of her to say that you have to loose wieght and put on some make up to get a guy. All you have to do is be yourself and have some fun. If he wants some one skinny then your not right for him!There is guys out there that genuinely like women with meat on thier bones. I have no problem finding guys and I weigh 250Lbs and i am only 5'8". If you act like a fun person and not a snot then they will come to you.If you get too skinny you might attract loosers(someone that doesn't like you for who or what you really are)
Go out Have fun and let them come to you