My answer is going to be simple: you are doing the RIGHT thing. You have a daughter and if you died, who would take care of her as well? DO NOT listen to your family saying those cruel things, they shouldn't judge until they are in that position themselves. Besides, abortions are often the lesser of two evils and I personally have no problem with them at all (as long as you are being careful which you clearly were!). Don't feel guilty. You will be helping out your daughter and family and this is the right thing to do. (hugs)