Manic 5 thank you!!! Your words really help, I think a close friend was in the same situation and I thought maybe that was what was going on , but i didnt want to assume or accuse, Um, the only prob is, I dont see him as much as i used to Which i really hope i can change soon and make plans with him, so i dont know how to bring it up, We arejust getting back to our relationship and i dont want to mess it up, upset him, but i hae to let him know i beliee in him and support him, how can you make someone see/believe that you love them andarent gonna lleave??