I am not your enemy zoo. I am your friend. I realize you don't always like to hear what I say, but I am giving you honest feedback about what i see. I read your threads and listen and care and try to help. It seems like you would rather just hear what you want to hear so you dont have to take responsibility for how you contribute to the problems in the relationship. I'm not saying your t doesn't makes mistakes, but you can only change your own behavior. You can get another therapist, but you may just find that history repeats itself if the core issues are not resolved.