Thread: The "Victim"
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Old Jun 25, 2011, 10:01 PM
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I am not worried about feeling those things, I already am. . I text my T (not sure if you read my other thread) and she told me to stop the fu--ing victim sh-- because it is so not true....
No I didn't see the thread. What does she mean by that? It sounds kind of hostile! Is she accusing you of acting victim-like (whatever that means)? Gosh, she just sounds so harsh!

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Originally Posted by PTSDlovemycats
I don't think I consider myself a victim still but yes I was the victim of a rape and I survived it.
I think this calls for compassion towards you. It sounds like she is saying, "hey, cats, get over your rape and stop playing the victim!" I hope I am wrong about that. What did you text her that resulted in her "fu--ing victim sh--" comment?

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