No I didn't see the thread. What does she mean by that? It sounds kind of hostile! Is she accusing you of acting victim-like (whatever that means)? Gosh, she just sounds so harsh!

I think this calls for compassion towards you. It sounds like she is saying, "hey, cats, get over your rape and stop playing the victim!" I hope I am wrong about that. What did you text her that resulted in her "fu--ing victim sh--" comment?