Dear Debbi, ((((((( HUGS )))))))

IMHO - I personally would give this T the boot.... any good T would know that weight is an WALL of PROTECTION for many people, from the wounds that haunt them from within - the T has to help you HEAL the past and them you can deal with the weight and why you are keeping it around.... What is the FAT protecting you from? - my FAT is protecting me from men and from looking like an attractive female with sexuality.... brought on by childhood sexual abuse of many of males.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -