Just want to clarify that I DONT think that this was not a good response... yes, in many ways this was a positive response. whether its good is not what I was questioning... the point is, it CONFUSED me, I guess your right...dizgirl2011...
what you said:

""It sounds like it wasnt the email that your feeling let down by but the initial reaction of your T? Perhaps you do not feel she was comforting enough at the time. Perhaps she was unsure of what was upsetting you but didnt want to push the subject or probe any further because the session was over and opening a "wound" at the end of a session can be very hard for a client to deal with. ""

so maybe what I need couldn't be fufilled by an email....maybe what I need is a better way to end my sessions... so I won't break down/fall apart again.

thanks for the thoughts...