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ITs not always what we say, its HOW we say it. And I really think, there is a more positive way to have "tough love," without it including cursing or invalidating/discouraging you when you are already, clearly upset. Tough love isn't the problem.... Its not what we say, its HOW we say it.
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---  A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.
Maya Angelou.
so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456
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"You're not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. You impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." (Woodrow Wilson)
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