I agree that binge eating most times is to fill an emotional void.

I agree that you need to clarify your T's statement. It sounds like a challenge to me or a way of "getting your goat" in order to get you to open up about it.

I disagree that FAT is ALWAYS a wall of protection. Sometimes it really could be "a glandular problem" or simply a lack of self-esteem... as in not wearing make-up. I used to be meticulous about my hair and make-up and now it's just not worth the effort unless I'm going out with my friends or being with a large group of my family. I at least make sure I'm clean and smell good for my grandkids.

Oh! And I put on a pair of fake eyelashes since I'm so lacking in that department that not even mascara helps! LOL