Hey hun,

I have to agree with all of those who feel the way you were spoken to is nothing short of abusive and it is not ok by any standard.
It really sounds like boundaries are being road over between you both. I don't think it's healthy that there is so much text conversation going on between you both - I know you dont want to hear that though. It sounds like she has not been giving herself time off work at all as she is allowing clients to contact her so much to all hours of the night. This has probably lead to a level of frustration which she is wrongly taking out on clients like yourself. It sounds like she tried to put a boundary in place by saying that she wouldn't respond to contact on the weekend and that she would not respond on the day she seen you and she is most likely holding onto that at the moment and is not reacting to your texts as a way of holding that boundary, not because she is mad at you. I know when you asked her if you could text when you felt like Self harming she said yes and that you feel sui should also be included in that but because she is not your only resource she possibly has instead decided that it was best not to reply at all this time or at least until monday.

I think your relationship with her would improve if contact between you via text or phone was reduced somewhat but I know that though it scary.