Umm, I have been pointing out ACTUAL inconsistencies in order to help you do this:

which is what you asked for in the title of your thread "help me figure this out"


I get to be verbally slapped in the face by you.


I haven't attacked you at all.


Okay zoo, you can paint me black. If you weren't so wrapped up in you, you would know a little bit about my story and how hard I have worked in therapy. I have been where you are, in the throes of borderline thinking and behavior and have come out the other side. I lost my first therapist due to the same kinds of behaviors that you post about all the time between you and your therapist. I have admitted to manipulation more than a few times. I have worked very hard to change my behaviors and build a life worth living. I've been supportive of you all this time, but you just forget all that because you dont like my directness and interpret it as harshness. This sounds exactly like what you do with your T. Yeah, I don't post in distress and pour out my pain like you do all the time because I'm not in that place anymore. But you can stay in victim mode as long as you want if that's what works for you.