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Originally Posted by lastyearisblank
I figured out what is bugging me and it is that my T assumes that the clashes between our personalities are all my fault and that other people see that as a bad thing in me... now that I've pissed my T off everything is going to be about that. I feel like she wants to see me SUFFER for my sins now.
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You could be right -- and then again, you might be assuming she feels that way. Any way you could check to see which is true?
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And she keeps bringing up that "if I feel that way maybe everyone else does too?" But does everyone else feel that I am mean and difficult? I'm not sure??????????????????????
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Again, I think it is hard at this distance to know what is happening. She could be simply stating what she observes, and posing to you the possibility that you have that effect on a lot of people. Or she could be upset at you and not clearly admitting that to herself, and so putting the onus on you. Can you figure out which it is?