I am going to repeat I hope you see your T again and ask for clarification I do NOT believe FAT always has to do with emotional issues..nor do I think MOST men find fat girls attractive on sight....MOST men ...I think weight should not matter once they get to know you but sadly even getting a job is harder if one is overweight ...I cannot judge your T because I do not know HER side and reasons..but let us say you made comments about wishing you had a guy.....she could have said it nicer but weight IS a barrier If I had an overweight friend I would say the same but as nice as I could.....Being lazy ..the word seems harsh but again I do not know HER side and how many sessions and how much was said about this..Still I KNOW you are hurt and I am sorry for your pain..Go back and set it straight..even print this thread out