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Originally Posted by XxLifexX
My mom doesn't care. She doesn't say it. But she doesn't have to. You can just tell when she looks at me. It's a look of dissappointment. My sister is just a brat. She hates me. But let her hate me. It doesn't really matter.
I love myself very much. There are somethings I would like to change, but everyone has something they want to change about themselves.
No, I am female.
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Right.
You know it can be your preconceived notion about your mother that she doesn't love you and you judge things on that perspective.
What is a logic to support your claim that she doesn't love you?
Can you think back and remember any such event where you felt that she loves you?
Same qs about your sister!
The better solution is to sit with them, negotiate and discuss your feelings with them and see what they have to say about it.. But before that, you should better relax and calm yourself.
When you are angry at them, distract yourself, move yourself from the situation, read a book, listen to music and relax .. and when you get back to your senses, think of ways to deal with your hatred/anger constructively.. Go and talk to them and be open to tell them that you are hurt by their behavior. This is a best way to handle anger constructively.
hope it helps.
