I'm concerned that adding more people to the mix is going to complicate your problems rather than solve them. I tried an open relationship in my early 20s, and it didn't work. My girlfriend said I could see other people and then hit the roof when I did. I wish I could tell you exactly what's going to happen with you. I can only tell you what happened with me. Being with several women at the same time didn't make my problems go away.
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- Samuel Beckett
It's never too late to start all over again
- Steppenwolf
Every person carries with him or herself patterns of thinking, feeling, and potential acting which were learned throughout their lifetime...As soon as certain patterns...have established themselves...he must unlearn these...and unlearning is more difficult than learning for the first time.
- Geert Hofstede
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