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Originally Posted by Brina1891
I'm not able to commit to someone and have a healthy relationship. I'm very controlling and want my space and everything the way I want it. One of my exs described be as being like a cat, Love me when I want to be loved otherwise leave me alone. I want to have a meaningful relationship, get married, and spend my life with someone but I'm so afraid that I'm not capable of letting myself get close enough to someone for that. Any advice?
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I think you laid out some pretty insightful things about yourself...these would be good areas to start. When you have worked through them enough to practice dating, make sure you have secured your own place. I'm guessing potential suitors may find you living with the father of your child a bit unsettling.