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How about i see him once more and let him know that i am uncomfortable and that if it continues i don't want to see him anymore? The only problem is i am trying right now to get accepted back into uni and i need letters and certificates from him, so i don't want to upset him just yet.

I don't think he would hurt me, he's, to be honest, probably not getting enough from his marriage at the moment. That's a good reason why a married professional would flirt.

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There is NEVER a good reason for a married or unmarried professional to flirt! Furthermore, he shouldn't even be telling you about his marital problems. Honey, it sounds like he is manipulating you. If you need his recommendations, he could be using that POWER to get what he wants. I strongly urge you to talk with someone about his behavior. It sounds like he has crossed a lot of boundaries and there must be someone within the professional community that you can report him to. Ask your family doctor for help. If you don't have one, use your computer to search within your country as to the appropriate licensing board - he must have some kind of license! Keep us posted.