When I'm attracted to a woman and get aroused I don't want to do anything with her. Not a single thing. It's not even an issue of fear of embarrassment, I really don't want to do anything. Also, yes, I do masturbate by looking at pictures. I don't think about anything, though. I don't have any desire to do anything with anyone. At all. I have recently had a mutual romantic interest which didn't exactly play out as well as I'd hoped (the details aren't important) and that's essentially the reason I'm trying to address this problem. Despite the fact that she was extremely attractive, I didn't want to do anything with her, not a single thing. I've been doing a little bit of research on the topic of "male low libido", which isn't exactly what I have, but apparently when a man has a very low sex drive the woman interprets it in horribly negative ways (she's not good enough, etc.). This means that I can never be with anyone. If I never meet anyone again, I don't really care, but if I do meet someone, I wouldn't want to lose her over something like this.