I don't quite know why you are in therapy if you don't want to go? I don't think you can get what you want from it unless you go there and participate. Being attached is a human condition; we're social animals. One becomes attached to one's mate, children, friends, etc. If you are working together with your T, you and your T will be "attached" to one another. Yes, it will hurt when you move one and don't work with her anymore but that's life (remember how sad you were at the end of each grade in grade school, you would be started anew next year with a different teacher/students in the class). It's not a whole lot different from changing jobs, moving house, etc.; we get attached, otherwise we're free-floating in outer space?