I have been in therapy for 3 months now and feel like I should be done by now. But truth is I do have alot to work on. T is my support system right now until I can build my own, which is a slow process, you cannot build relationships overnite or even in a few months this takes time. Talking with my T about struggles, gives me a new way of looking at things, to enable me to make more friends.

Just 2 weeks ago I was feeling great, had friends a girlfriend. Who needs therapy, well things fell apart with that, and now I still need that support, it shows I am not healed yet. Not enough to do it on my own.

I suggest you tell T all of this maybe even copy your post and email it to her.

As far as money goes I see therapy as an investment in my well being. That is priceless. I look at how I was 3 months ago and where I am now, I tell you what if I need therapy for the rest of my life (hopefully not), just to keep on track I would get a second job to pay for it.

Best of luck to you!