Well, JW, you cant make someone love you. I know it is hard when you really care for someone else and it does hurt you. Perhaps you need to stop seeing her and it seems like she is using you to vent or talk to. If anything you could be candid with her and let her know that you really do love her and if she turns you away than break it off. You are torturing youself, and arcangel is right, it sounds like you are a nice guy and nice guys are hard to find, you deserve better.

Unfortunately this girl is putting herself in this spot, if you have talked to her about it and been honest and she still wont listen than take a walk away from her.

Open Eyes