at the risk of being sarcastic...why am i not surprised...& i guess this means that the post from a few days ago stating that you were contemplating therapy if you could a therapist you could tolerate just ain't going to happen?

i guess if you have serious concerns about wanting to work on some issues then you have to find ways around the stumbling blocks. if you can't fix what ails you yourself & need to have a coach, mentor, therapist, pastor, what ever you want, need to name it to assist you the you have to help then sometimes you have to suck it up & find that person. if a woman can't do it, then find a male. maybe a group setting is for you. whatever.

life is too short to be miserable & complain about it. seems to me (& this is just my humble opinion..)that complaining about how crappy 1 therapist treated you isn't making going to make anything better.

look...i don't like ketchup on hot dogs...i like mustard. some serves me one with the dreaded red stuff i8 can piss & moan until i turn 90 & be miserable & not enjoy my life or i can remedy the situation by figuring out that i don't like ketchup & only mustard & then only go to places that serve the good brown stuff. then life is good & i can go on with things & be happy. problem solved. simplistic yes...but you get the idea.

i guess my question is: at what point will you decide what to do about the situation...deal with it by addressing it...or just continue to complain...(& yes i realize this is a board where people are free to vent about issues so you are free to just continue to do so)......but to me anyway.

anyway...i guess you could screw up my whole arguement & go with the whole relish thing & totally avoid ketchup/mustard or even be a vegetarian...but i was making a point.

stumpy