Thanks for sharing Soup Dragon and its comforting to know someone who can relate. Are you legally divorced? The only good thing is, he's gone most of the day and comes home late, so I see him maybe 10 minutes tops...some days only saying hi and goodbye. Yes the kids would be worse off if I were to insist on living separate. The 1st thing he would do is get rid of the house. I emailed him and told him that discussing those details hurts my feelings and he sent me a reply that said "F**k you". He's heartless most of the time.