((((((Tree)))))) I so so so understand about the ceiling :-( I am so so sorry.

Yes, our safe male T's to hug us after they KNOW what we have to tell them...
wow girl... yeah... we NEED those hugs. We didn't get them at the time, that is for dang sure! Left to feel like what we were told we were. But you and I are NOT that! We DESERVE to be loved and respected! I want my T right now and will go in thought to his couch and curl up for bed and just see him looking at me... all SAFE...

God BLESS those male Ts who work with female survivors and can really be safe but still give us that hug that helps us heal.

TONS of hugs to you!