Well, if it helps you any my daughter was 12 when I found out my husband had cheated and I just didn't know what to do. But a therapist told me that my daughter was at a very crucial age and it could really effect her. So I made up my mind that I would devote myself to trying. So the age of your daughters is very suseptible and you are doing your best.

Please keep in mind my other suggestions. You are still very smart and capable as a person. Plan your own future while biding your time. I sounds like you are trying to weigh all your options. Keep thinking about your possibilites. I hate to say it but I do hope your husbands complaints mean you will not have to wait as long as you think. Try to live each day and love your children. At least you are not in a situation where your husband is demanding sex that you do not want. It sounds like he is just an unpleasant presence.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. We are always here you know if you need to vent. We do care and will listen if you have a bad day and you just need to vent.
Keep us posted.

Open Eyes