((((((( HUGS )))))))) ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS )))))))

I was going to say - MAKE HIM GO - while my sons would give me a argument over it if they did not wish to go - they would still go out of respect, just angry.
Maybe try telling him how much YOU love him and how much you are SCARED for him and his life... that you just want to help.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -