my sister has a similar prob wiht her ex -he seems to hav the attitude im awaka and wan to talk so whats your problem? sigh

and i have done the same wiht my sister cos she drinks when she gets home and then rings me - so i have let it go to the answering machine and then called her back the next day saying i dont take calls after 8pm unless its an emergency - i know that sounds harsh -but she would ring and pick a fight and thenshe would forget about it and be fine the next day while i was still torn up about it an had prob cried ...

sometimes its hard but an answering machine is the only answer