*sigh*
ADHD child who's 8... I respect you a lot for the amount of patience it must require to deal with him.
I remember reading a book about how to deal with children with behavioural issues (which encompasses ADD/ADHD a bit). If I can remember the book (I'll try really hard!) I'll send you the title.
Books aren't always useful but it could help.
What about using negative reinforcement?
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