Thanks Christina. I have done so much research into how to deal with him and how to cope myself. Any more info is always useful.

Negative reinforcement causes him to act up even more, especially at school. Lately I have just been withdrawing myself from him. And I don't know if that is a good thing either.

Just a little while ago he asked for help trying to play a cd. When I tried to help he snatched it out of my hand saying he had already done that. He didn't even know what I was going to do yet!!! So I left him to his own devices. Told him to help himself.

My husband is losing patience with him because of the way he talks back to me and the tone of voice he uses. I fear (actually I know) I am losing patience too.

Sorry - didn't mean to ramble on - just frustrated.

Thanks for your support