i'm not really planning to shout it from mountaintops. more that i wanted to be able to share with a few people who are close to me. my wife is the only one i've ever told the story to. i'm not sure when i will tell anyone else and i'm not in a hurry. but it's been on my mind much more lately. i'm not surprised that there are some judgers but the people i would consider telling i feel would accept me and if not then oh well i guess.