The way I look at it, it's the T's job to help us make ourselves better. They're hired for a job & the job entails hearing intimate details of someone else's life & to process that info in an unbiased manner. I don't feel shy at all about telling my T things, even though I'm new at this. If I didn't want help, I wouldn't be there. And, if I want help, I have to honest about myself. I like that I can tell my T things that would otherwise just make my mom cry... Wishing you strength... xxxxx