the only way out is through...
i think treehouse said it best. as I struggle with the same thing.
I do agree that it is there job to listen and if they are constantly
feeling uncomfortable they should have chosen a different career path...
I mean, I've never been a therapist so idk but, it seems to me, that
it would be much much harder for us to open our mouths than it
is for them to just sit and listen.
Hell, I've been a confidant/ listener in people's lives my whole life
and its always been much harder to share than its been to listen to them.
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--- A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.
Maya Angelou.
so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456
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