There is more to the story but there wouldn't be any room.You got a guy who spends almost 24/7 on his computer and the only time he gets of the cough is to use thr rest room. That's his day. Nothing gets done around here unless you do it. There is no hope for this ,It is point less becouse it doesn't do any good ,You tried to resolve things but nothing is working out the way you hope.You are very unhappy and for 6 years it has been his world and not you in it. You talk to his doctor,T ,Md, so on ,You are starting to think just maybe they think you are going out of your mind, They don't listen to you on any issues. You feel like you made a big misteak in your life.You put up and shut up for 6 years and every time you say something things get wrose.It seems useless ,hopeless. I Look at it this way no one has answer for things and any adivce.It is a hopeless case.