That's okay Michael the Great - I actually enjoyed reading your post the other day...some parts were funny and he deserves those kind of solutions lol. If I didn't have to worry about my kids, those scenarios would provide sweet revenge lol.

I agree it would be best just to consult with a lawyer and I'll probably do this in September when the girls go back to school. I think I'll also get the opinion of the police and let them know I've been threatened in the past - I don't know what the law is, if its just me saying it happened. He made it clear if I went ahead with filing for divorce, he would make it ugly because he has access to lawyers and I wouldn't have money to fight back. My girls would end up in poverty and there's no equity in the house ATM due to personal bankruptcy 2 yrs ago. Once my youngest becomes older it won't be as bad as when they're young. Thank you for the suggestions and to everyone else who responded.