Which gender is better to have as a T?
What are the pros and cons, issues to consider?

Just guessing here but I'd think that is going to be subjective rather than objective. In other words...a matter of opinion and personal preference based on...a lot of things lol. I can understand why a sexual abuse victim might prefer a female therapist but obviously not all do.
I'd think that the pros and cons would have already occurred to you so maybe this is more of a conversational thread?

Or does it not matter?
Not to me. All I would want in a therapist is competence. Don't want or need a mommy or daddy or guru or fantasy lover

Thank you!
You're welcome...